A free evidence-based parenting programme for New Zealand parents. Build a stronger connection with your child and greater confidence in your parenting. Valued at over $650. 

Parenting can be one of the most rewarding experiences of our lives, but it can also be one of the most challenging. 

Many of us find ourselves wondering: 

  • Why is my child behaving this way? 
  • How can I better support their big emotions? 
  • Am I responding in the way they need? 
  • How do I build a strong, secure relationship with my child? 

Circle of Security Parenting™ is a free, internationally recognised, evidence-based parenting programme available to New Zealand families through The Village NZ Hub. It helps parents better understand their child’s emotional needs and strengthen the connection that forms the foundation for lifelong wellbeing. Suitable for parents and caregivers of tamariki aged 6 months and older. 

Exclusive The Village NZ Hub Member Benefit 

Joining the Hub is free, and it gives you access to this programme (typically valued at over $650) at no cost, alongside many other expert-led programmes and support services. 

Not yet a member? Joining takes just a few minutes at hub.thevillagenz.org. 

What Is the Circle of Security? 

The Circle of Security is a simple yet powerful framework that helps parents understand the balance between a child’s need to explore the world and their need for connection, comfort, and support. 

Children thrive when they know they have a secure base from which to explore and a safe haven to return to when they feel overwhelmed or distressed. When parents understand these needs and respond with greater awareness, children are more likely to: 

  • Develop secure, trusting relationships 
  • Build emotional resilience 
  • Feel confident exploring the world around them 
  • Better manage stress and emotions 
  • Enter school with greater social and emotional readiness 
What You’ll Learn 

This course is designed to help parents strengthen the foundation of their relationship with their child through a deeper understanding of emotional development, connection, and caregiving. Together, we’ll explore: 

  • Understanding your child’s emotional needs and behaviours 
  • Recognising and responding to emotional cues 
  • Building stronger parent-child connections 
  • Understanding what gets in the way of connection 
  • Reflecting on how our own experiences influence our parenting 
  • Developing greater confidence in challenging parenting moments 
You Might Benefit From This Course If; 
  • Your child experiences frequent meltdowns or big emotions 
  • You’re finding yourself reacting in ways you wish you wouldn’t 
  • You sometimes feel unsure how to respond in challenging moments 
  • You want to strengthen your relationship with your child 
  • You’d like greater confidence and practical tools for everyday parenting 
Things to Note 

Circle of Security is an in-depth and reflective programme that requires your full attention and participation. For this reason, children are unable to attend sessions. 

The course includes opportunities for self-reflection and discussion, and some participants may find aspects of the programme emotionally challenging as they explore their own parenting journey. However, many parents describe this process as one of the most valuable and transformative aspects of the course. 

Ready to Join Us? 

Research consistently shows that secure parent-child relationships are one of the strongest protective factors for children’s emotional wellbeing, resilience, and future relationships. 

If you’d like to better understand your child, strengthen your connection, and gain practical tools for navigating the challenges of parenting, we’d love to welcome you to the programme. 

Register here:
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If you’d like to enquire about our classes or get in touch with any questions or concerns you may have please email us and one of the Village NZ team will be in touch. We aim to get back to you within 48 hours. 

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Testimonials;

“I can honestly say the Circle of Security of course has changed my parenting journey.  Being a parent is such an amazing, but challenging job.  One that you never really feel prepared for.  The Circle of Security provided a safe space to reflect on the challenges of being a parent, taught me about understanding my children’s needs and helped me problem-solve some of the unique challenges I face as a parent.  The course was so impactful that I’ve now hired a parenting coach that I see monthly as a way to continue what was started on the Circle of Security Course.  Just imagine the impact on our communities if people had more guidance on how to be effective parents!  Talk about a useful investment!”  – Nick 

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I really benefitted from this course as it helped me recognize that it’s okay to let your child explore the world/their surroundings on their own without hovering over them and not giving them the space, they need to discover these things but also being there for them when they needed that reassurance and support. One part that stuck with me was when the baby was crying and instead of trying to distract them and saying you’re ok, letting them feel and work through the emotions and acknowledging them. Seeing it from the baby’s perspective was very eye opening. I also wouldn’t want someone shaking a rattle and telling me I’m ok when I’m having a cry!  – Truong